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Sidney Poitier chokes up as he recalls kind Jewish waiter who taught him to read as a boy

Poitier said one of his great regrets was that he never got to thank the waiter for his help.

Sidney Poitier chokes up as he recalls kind Jewish waiter who taught him to read as a boy
Image source: CBS Sunday Morning screen shot

The world lost a legend when Sidney Poitier passed away in January 2022 at the age of 94. As one of Hollywood's first Black movie stars and the first Black man to win the Best Actor Oscar, Poitier broke barriers both on and off the screen. Born in the Bahamas, he arrived in New York City with dreams of becoming an actor, but his journey was initially hindered by his inability to read. In a touching interview with CBS Sunday Morning, Poitier shared how a kind stranger—a waiter—helped him overcome this challenge, a memory that left him visibly emotional as he recounted it to Lesley Stahl.

 

While working as a dishwasher to make ends meet, Poitier would bring newspapers to his shifts in an effort to teach himself to read. One day, an elderly Jewish waiter noticed him struggling. Poitier recalled, “He got up, and he walked over, and he stood by the table that’s next to the kitchen, and he said, ‘Hi. What’s new in the papers?’ And I said to him, ‘I can’t tell you what’s new in the papers because I don’t read very well. I didn’t have very much of an education.’” That simple conversation marked the beginning of a life-changing lesson, as the waiter took time out of his day to help Poitier improve his literacy, setting him on the path to achieving his dreams.

 

"He asked, 'Would you like me to read with you.' I said to him, 'Yes, if you'd like to,'" he said. Poitier explained that he sat "every night" with him to teach him after his work shift was over. Poitier fought tears as he recollected the kindness of a man who had almost nothing to gain from teaching Poitier, and he still did it. “Every night after that he would come over and sit with me, and he would teach me what a comma is and why it exists, what periods are, what colons are, what dashes are,” said Poitier. “He would teach me that there are syllables and how to differentiate them in a single word and consequently, learn how to pronounce them. Every night," said the actor getting emotional.

 

Poitier added that it slowly and surely changed the trajectory of his life, as a human being and as an actor. He still had one regret though. “One of my great regrets in life is that I went on to be a very successful actor, and one day I tried to find him, but it was too late, and I regret that I never had the opportunity to really thank him,” said Poitier on an episode of the podcast “What It Takes.” The actor has also paid tribute to the kind Jewish waiter in interviews with Oprah, on “60 Minutes” and also mentioned him in award acceptance speeches.

 

Poitier would go on to become one of the biggest stars in Hollywood and certainly the first Black movie star. Up until then, Black people only starred in bit-part roles that were cut of movies when released in conservative areas of America.  As Denzel Washington perfectly put it: "You couldn’t cut Sidney Poitier out of a Sidney Poitier picture. He was the reason a movie got made. the first solo, above the title, African-American movie star. He was unique." Poitier won an Oscar for his performance in 'Lilies of the Field,' in which he played an itinerant laborer who helps a group of White nuns build a chapel. 

 

Poitier's touched upon his journey and the significance of it after being awarded an honorary Oscar for his contribution to film, in 2002. "I arrived in Hollywood at the age of 22 in a time different than today’s, a time in which the odds against my standing here tonight 53 years later would not have fallen in my favor. Back then, no route had been established for where I was hoping to go, no pathway left in evidence for me to trace, no custom for me to follow," he said, reported The Guardian. "Yet, here I am this evening at the end of a journey that in 1949 would have been considered almost impossible and in fact might never have been set in motion was there not an untold number of courageous, unselfish choices made by a handful of visionary American film-makers, directors, writers, and producers," he said before naming many of them who supported his journey.

 

 

 

 

This article originally appeared 2 years ago.

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