In the caption, she shared her excitement and revealed she had been unknowingly part of the plan for months.
Extravagant proposals have become their own kind of art. They are meticulously planned, emotionally charged, and built around moments that stay with people for a lifetime. That’s what happened to Marquala Woodward "Quala"–who goes by @__qualaaaaaa on TikTok–who believed she was attending a formal black tie event until she stepped into the room and realized she was walking into one of the biggest moments of her life. In the video, Woodward arrives dressed for the occasion, escorted by friends and unaware of what awaits inside. The venue was set up with red ropes at the entrance and rose petals on the floor.
"POV: You weren't going to a Black Tie event. You were going to your proposal," the video's overlay text read. In the caption, she wrote, "I’M ENGAAGGGEEDDD. Baby, thank you for making me the happiest woman alive! I love you forever. SN: Dada, you ATE DOWN. Should I show engagement pictures? Maybe story time on how I’ve been bamboozled for 3 months?" What followed was an outpouring of love and support in the comments. Many viewers highlighted how thoughtful the setup was.
@KaiaP wrote, "This is the first proposal I’ve seen where I actually understand why it could be beautiful to have family and friends there. This is so amazing, and they all clearly love you! Aww." @bwhitman1 noted, "Black tie event is such a good ploy to get your girl looking good too! Nails, dress, hair! Yes." @ari33nana added, "See, this is how friends should always do it. 'Hey girl, I got an event to go to. It’s a 'theme party,' you gotta dress up, can you come with me?' Because, baby, you look amazing and beat down. Hair good, everything." @donwonda1 said, "The disbelief and crying got me crying. Congratulations, y'all be blessed in love."
@styledbymalon0 said, "Please post the whole video. I’m in tears just off that part. Lord, I know it was a beautiful proposal." @ambrasiaaaa added, "I pray this kind of intentional love finds me. But from one woman to another, I'm happy for you and pray nothing but peace and abundance with your union." @itsroxyvail couldn’t help but shout out the carefully thought-out plan: "At first I was like, 'Ain’t no way a man did all that,' then I saw the flag in the username and then it all made sense. This is so loving. You SEE her. That's real love." @ambernichole095 commented, "The way they open the door and you’re like ‘We in the wrong spot fam’—lol it’s the first look for me. Congratulations!" @ceyonnjo remarked, "I don't appreciate how y'all just left us at the door!!"
@__qualaaaaaa I’M ENGAAGGGEEDDD😍💍Baby thank you for making me the happiest woman alive! I love you forever🫶🏾 SN: Dada you ATE DOWN😂😍Should I show engagement pics?Maybe story time on how I’ve been bamboozled for 3months?😂 #proposal #engagement #lgbt #mrsandmrs #lesbiancouple #bridetobe #fyp ♬ original sound - QUALA🏳️🌈
As Woodward's video went viral, many viewers requested the full video of the proposal, so she shared part 2. The proposal was even more moving than the reveal. In the second clip, her partner stands at the altar, surrounded by candles and red roses, delivering a heartfelt speech that had both of them—and much of TikTok—wiping away tears. She says, "I love me some you," and makes a series of promises to love her fully, protect her in every way, and be the best mother to their future children. With both families present, her partner says, "From this moment forward, we are all one family in love. I asked your mother and your brothers for your hand in marriage, and they all said yes."
@__qualaaaaaa Replying to @BlackForce We would never just leave yall at the door😂🫶🏾So does this mean yall coming along for the wedding journey?!🥹 SN: For the life of me I can’t figure out the noise in the back ground. I didn’t hear it and that’s what matters🥰 (so not too f*cking much yall🙃) #proposal #engagement #lgbtq #lesbiancouple #mrsandmrs #bridetobe #fyp ♬ original sound - QUALA🏳️🌈
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