Woman says that this 3-month dating rule dictates the future of any relationship

In the era of catfishing and right-swiping, finding a good partner is an ordeal. Relationship tips make the job a little easier and nudge a person in the right direction. A woman called Anabelle—who goes by@anabellegesson, shared a helpful rule that can help you judge a relationship's potential. It's called the 3-month rule and the creator talked about it in a video that has received 1.2 million views. Gesson created the video in response to a comment by @Jahasia that read, "What is the 3-month rule?" The creator explains the rule and reveals that everything made more sense to her after learning about this rule.

The creator began, "If a girl is having a talking stage with a guy and it hits that three-month mark but he has not said anything about dating her or being exclusive, then he's not gonna do it." She says that it is likely that the guy is just stringing you along. She also states that if people have been dating for 3 months then it has been psychologically proven that the couple is going to last for quite a while. The reason behind this is, "Because after 3 months the honeymoon phase ends." She adds, "So if they're still sticking around after that then you guys get along."

@seguinpoissonfamily shared, "We lived in a motel together at our 3-month mark. There were circumstances leading to that point. Now 2 1/2 years later we are expecting baby #1." @reversetg agreed with the woman and wrote, "True 3 months and she dipped with having a conversation just disappeared." @samuelvjanera expressed, "I loved her didn’t know how to tell her, found out she was using the 3-month rule, I think you know what happened." @steviestan104 remarked, "3 months to see if I wanna date a girl I know but by week two if the vibes are right." @adriannnnn44 commented, "Okay, after this I understand everything."

In another similar story, an Australian content creator @pheveya shared the "cavoodle method" in dating which she claims that she has invented. The creator shared that when she was dating an ex, she was obsessed with cavoodles, which is a dog breed. She talked about them often in front of her ex. So when her ex saw anything related to a "cavoodle" he would remember her. The ex would also share photos and videos of the dog breed with the woman and expressed that he thinks of her whenever he sees a "cavoodle." She further added that if you want someone to think about you all the time you can use the "cavoodle method" where you obsessively talk about one thing in front of the person you like.

The woman also gave the example of her friend who loves ramen noodles and talks about them all the time. As she talked about ramen noodles so much in front of her date, whenever he saw a shop or ate ramen noodles he would think of the friend. "If you are so obsessed with something and people start sending stuff about them to you, claiming that they are thinking about you, then you are doing the "cavoodle effect," the woman said. "Use this method on a boy and you will be stuck in the head of this boy forever," she added sharing this interesting relationship hack.

You can follow Anabelle Gesson (@anabellegesson) on TikTok for more relationship videos.