Woman returns to a trashed home after husband spends 3 days alone: 'Pick your partners wisely'

Relationships are built on a solid foundation of love, respect, and care for one another. However, some people take advantage of their partner’s emotional weak points, pressing them hard where it hurts the most.

A woman recently found herself in a vulnerable position after her husband flipped their family home upside down. The troubled couple’s daughter, Kaitlyn Miller—who goes by @arianagrandesleftshoe on TikTok—returned to their house with her mom after a three-day trip, and they were gobsmacked to see the unwanted transformation.

In the video, Miller warns people to choose the right partner amidst the mess her dad created at their family home. The agitated daughter, for obvious reasons, does not lose her cool while criticizing her father’s “weaponized incompetence.”

“Y’all want to see what real weaponized incompetence looks like?” the woman asked her viewers. “Me and my mom haven’t been home for three days. I haven’t been home for longer, but he was left to his own for three whole days, and that’s it,” she added.

Following this, the daughter started giving a glimpse of her house, which was completely unorganized, with things scattered everywhere. The video showed the dining room table covered with pieces of mail, a paper plate with a knife and fork left on it, and splattered with some ketchup. Thereafter, Miller pointed to an empty tissue box on the table, a wireless mouse, and an open laptop resting next to it. “This is the state of our kitchen and dining room. This is the tamest of it. It’s his computer just left open. This is his mess, specifically all there,” said the woman, her voice trembling in anger.

Moreover, Miller’s dad had left piles of groceries, plates, tissues, beer cans and his car keys unmoved in the kitchen area for three days. “Of course, he can’t take out the recycling,” she said while panning the camera to an empty milk jug with an empty paper bag jammed inside, alongside the trash overflowing with crushed beer cans. Additionally, the nearly two-minute house tour video showed a crusted food spatula, in contrast to unwashed utensils that have “been there for days.” At this point, the daughter also complained about an empty paper towel holder hanging beneath the cabinet.

“Then this paper towel roll,” Miller remarked, clearly exhausted by the mess her dad had left. Notably, an unused paper towel roll was seen resting on the counter. The daughter claimed, “He won’t replace it. My mom says to just leave it so he has to clean it all up because I have a theory he left this ginormous mess to punish us for not being home with him for days.”

“I think he did this intentionally to try to make us have to clean up after him. We will not be doing that. This is crazy work,” Miller explained, adding that her mom had only left an empty box and a Taco Bell bag on the counter before they headed out for the trip.

“It starts with the water bottles and the beer cans, but this is what happens when you leave them alone in the house to their own devices. So pick your partners wisely, people,” she concluded, inviting reactions from the online community.

In the comments section, many urged Miller’s mom to reconsider staying with her husband.

“That big of a mess is insane for one person to create in just three days,” @thetina.marie wrote. @that.is.a.no.from.me shared, “My husband would never. In fact, he would make sure the house was cleaner than when I left. He doesn't want me to stress out.” “This is beyond weaponized incompetence,” another user asserted.

You can follow Kaitlyn Miller (@arianagrandesleftshoe) on TikTok for more lifestyle content.