'I hope you enjoy living here as much as we do, and all your downs are small and all your ups are big...'
Aimee Oliver was cleaning her kitchen when she stumbled upon a handwritten letter from 1993. Surprisingly, when Ms. Oliver read it, she realized Kirstie Neal, a previous tenant of the same property, had left it for her. On June 29, 2025, Ms. Oliver posted pictures of the note, hoping to connect with Kirstie and Andy, her (then) husband, who had lived there 32 years ago.
"To whom it may concern," she began, with heartfelt wishes for future residents. When Kirstie had written the letter, she and her ex-husband were only 24. She said that when they moved into the property, it was in poor condition, but they were gradually refurbishing it "bit by bit." Kirstie wished that the tenants who came after them would do well and wrote, "I hope you enjoy living here as much as we do, and all your downs are small and all your ups are big." At the end, she also mentioned the rent they were paying when they lived in the same house, years ago, and it was only £27,000. As expected, the Facebook post reached Andy, and he commented on it. He wrote, "Well, now. The Andy in the letter is me. We stayed in the flat until 1996 (I think) when we moved to a house in Lancing. Unfortunately, we didn’t stay together, but we did remain good friends. We had 2 children who are now in their mid-20s." Interestingly, an ex-colleague of Andy's mom had seen Ms. Oliver's post, and that's how he got to know about it in less than 24 hours, BBC reported.
Later, when Ms. Oliver messaged Andy, she found him to be surprisingly open about his life. "It's really cool to see how it's been changed and updated," she said. Notably, Ms. Oliver and her husband, who are tattoo artists, even shared about working on a design for Mr. Neal in tribute to his father, who recently passed away. Though, unfortunately, Andy and Kirstie separated, they had once built a life together, and that house where Ms. Oliver lives now is a testament to that precious bond. Just like the former couple, people often grow fond of the house that stands as a witness to all their ups and downs in life — something we call "place attachment." In simple words, it basically refers to the emotional connection people feel to a place, like their neighborhood, town, or even a home. Now, this connection can stem from both personal experiences, just like Kirstie, and social connections.
Reacting to Ms. Oliver's post, Kellie Luna commented, "Place it back where you found it, but put a note of yours on the back for future owners to find both." John E. T. Herington shared, "Whenever I do maintenance work on properties, painting, etc., I’ll do a doodle of a spider and date it. Even when I build a stud wall or have to lift floorboards, I’ll put that day's newspaper and a message."
Joanne Jones recalled, "That's a nice letter. In the flat I moved into, I found a letter taped under a kitchen cupboard drawer. A love letter sent with nudes in '96. That was a surprise." AliAli Cat wrote, "That is sweet of her, a bit like a time capsule message without the bottle. Ah, the days when you could buy a flat for £27K in the South East..."
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