Tobey Maguire officiated his ex-wife’s wedding. She says her new husband ‘loves him so much’

On Saturday, October 10, 2026, the Four Seasons Resort Lanai in Hawaii flipped the usual narrative about life after divorce on its head. As jewelry designer Jennifer Meyer prepared to tie the knot with billionaire music executive Geoff Ogunlesi, all eyes were on the man standing at the altar. It was none other than her ex-husband, "Spider-Man" actor Tobey Maguire, officiating the wedding just 19 days after their divorce was legally finalized, PEOPLE reported on October 12.

'We wanted to be in each other’s lives'

The secret behind Maguire and his ex-wife Meyer's unusual bond is a decade of conscious co-parenting and genuine affection. The actor's presence at the wedding with their kids, Ruby Sweetheart, 19, and Otis Tobias, 17, proves that sometimes love and mutual respect can outlast marriage. Opening up in an interview with People magazine, Meyer explained how they prioritized family above everything else: "When Tobey and I broke up, it was very clear immediately that Ruby and Otis came first, and we really cared about each other as people, and we wanted to be in each other’s lives no matter what." She added that they were determined to keep their family unit intact, sharing, "And we didn’t want to miss a Christmas. We didn’t want to miss a Thanksgiving."

Surprisingly, Maguire also shares a sweet bond with Ogunlesi, Meyer's new husband. Reflecting on it, she shut down any speculation of jealousy between the two men. In fact, Meyer gushed about the genuine connection between her past and present partners, revealing, "Tobey and my fiancé, Geoff, love each other so much." Rather than tension or quiet resentment, the wedding showcased a rare, comfortable friendship among the trio.

Against all odds

A YouGov survey found that 44% of Americans aren't friends with their former partners. In fact, women were more likely than men to say they're not friends with any of their exes (49% vs. 38%). While most adults said they can stay on speaking terms with a former flame, maintaining a bond so close that an ex-spouse actively officiates a new marriage stands out as an extraordinary anomaly in American relationship dynamics. The data proves that Maguire, Meyer, and Ogunlesi have mastered harmonious co-parenting, while staying amicable with an ex remains a clear exception across the nation.

Meanwhile, Meyer's wedding served as a joyful celebration of an ever-expanding, blended family. Notably, just months before walking down the aisle in June 2026, she welcomed a baby girl with Ogunlesi, whom Maguire too embraced wholeheartedly. For those unaware, Meyer married Maguire in 2007, and the marriage lasted until they separated in 2016. The pair, who share two kids, filed their divorce in October 2020.

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