Campbell was working at a Connecticut elementary school in 2012 when 20 students and six adults were shot and killed at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT.
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Parents and children all over America are in complete shock in the wake of the mass shooting that killed 19 children and two teachers at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas. Children who survived the traumatic attack are likely to be deeply scarred. A clinical psychologist who helped kids after the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting in 2012 shared crucial information that could help children process the trauma and begin to heal from the tragedy. Katelyn Campbell, from South Carolina, took to Twitter to explain how parents and teachers can help the affected kids heal. “Kids process their feelings through play and art,” Campbell told TODAY Parents. She explained that one way for kids to begin to heal was to have them help 'other kids' through art. Campbell said the key was to make them feel useful about helping others when in truth they were helping themselves.
Campbell was working at an elementary school in Connecticut in 2012 when 20 students and six adults were shot and killed at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown. The school Campbell worked at was just 30 minutes away from Sandy Hook. She explained how teachers and therapists could help kids heal. "What helped: We had our kids draw pictures of scenery that made them feel calm — we then hung them up around the school—to make the 'other kids who were scared' have something calm to look at," she wrote. Campbell stressed that it was important that the kids felt they were helping someone else. "But really, it gave the kids something to 'do' that felt useful. Kids, like adults, want to feel helpful when they feel helpless. And they loved the idea that they could help 'other kids' feel better (they were the scared ones, but it’s easier to talk about the 'other kids')," she wrote.
For Teachers/Therapists: I worked in a CT elementary school when Sandy Hook happened.— Dr. K8 PsyD (@psych_k8) May 25, 2022
What helped: We had our kids draw pictures of scenery that made them feel calm—we then hung them up around the school—to make the “other kids who were scared” have something calm to look at.
Campbell explained it was important to choose words carefully while helping them heal. "We didn’t use the language 'safe' place because that can be a tough and loaded concept for kids who never feel safe. So we used language around feeling 'calm' or 'peaceful' and the kids ran with it," she wrote. "Many asked to make multiple pictures. We were ready to wallpaper the place." She added that students from other classes were also eager to help. "Other classes jumped in and our school was covered with rainbows, beaches, pretty flowers, playgrounds, and happy scenery by the end of the day. I’m pretty sure it helped us, adults, too. They stayed up for weeks," she wrote. Campbell recalled her experience of working with elementary school aged kids after the Sandy Hook shooting. “The kids were really frightened and overwhelmed,” said Campbell. “They all came asking questions like, ‘Am I safe? Is someone going to come and shoot me?’ It was absolutely heartbreaking.”
But really, it gave the kids something to “do” that felt useful. Kids, like adults, want to feel helpful when they feel helpless. And they loved the idea that they could help “other kids” feel better (they were the scared ones, but it’s easier to talk about the “other kids”)— Dr. K8 PsyD (@psych_k8) May 25, 2022
Sandy Phillips, who lost her daughter Jessi in a 2012 mass shooting in a movie theater, said that they can survive the pain. "They want to die right now. They don't want to take another breath. And when we go in and we actually meet with these people, we let them know that we felt the same way," she said, reported NPR. "I tell them that if I'd had a gun in the house, I probably would not be here today. But ... we did survive, and we did find joy again. And we still miss our daughter and always will. And our lives will never be the same, and neither will theirs." Sandy Phillips has been advocating for better gun control reform and will continue to do so. "I want to say it's unbelievable, but it's not," she says of the Uvalde tragedy. "It's predictable. And it's preventable."
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