Aug 25, 2023
By: Abhiram SajaiA woman tends to be considered attractive mostly based on her physical appearance. While external beauty is desirable, it's the internal traits that manage to make a lasting impression. Examples of such traits include confidence and a sense of humor. Kind...
Fighting and/or approaching conflict in a healthy manner. During one of my early fights with my GF (now wife of 15 years) I was surprised that even though she was still mad, she clearly said "I'm upset when you did X, because of (something in her...
Emotional intelligence will apply to men as well. Anyone who takes the time to wonder WHY they feel a certain way vs. acting on it out of instinct is a gift. I’ve never been in a relationship like this in my life, We can talk anything out peacefully. No argume...
Straight-up kindness. I met my wife 11 years ago and fell in love pretty quickly. She is the kindest person I have ever met. Doesn't matter the situation, she approaches all of them with a serenity that I have never been able to match. Every dog gets love...
Thoughtfulness goes hand in hand with a lot of traits. My girlfriend is the most thoughtful partner I’ve ever had. I missed out on a job at my dream company and she made me a “feeling blue” package full of blue snacks I like with a sweet card. I’ll have a bad ...
My wife, among other zillion virtues, has this consideration for others/cleaning discipline. So we would go to hotels and she would make the bed, remove trash, etc. to the point that half the hotels / Airbnbs ask me if we even used the room. It’s somet...
Someone who ACTUALLY is ok with their man being emotionally honest and open. A lot of women say they want that, but what they really want is a guy who'll call things cute and shed a single manly tear at Titanic, but will say "well that's embarra...
There are a couple in my opinion. Respect is a big one. I'm not dating anyone shallow, abusive, or disrespectful to other people. It's a big indicator of something flawed in their personality. The biggest one for me though, and this is gonna sound we...
She shows a genuine interest in something I’m passionate about. For example: my cousin’s friend was over, and she was asking about football, and she’s a Minnesota fan (bless her heart), and she understood players on the team and general a fair bit more tha...
She makes an effort. A lot of women have the kind of mentality where they are doing a man a favor by dating him so therefore he needs to romance her and be thoughtful and do all this stuff for her while she does the bare minimum. (A lot of men might do it too,...
That she’s willing to grow as a person. I’ve met and dated far too many girls who think they’re finished, that they’ve reached the top of the mountain and we should all bow before their greatness. My wife is constantly trying to learn more and gets excited to ...