Men share the truth about what they think of women's common insecurities and it's refreshing

Aug 17, 2023

By: Abhiram Sajai

Men's positive perspectives on women's insecurities

Being insecure is something every human being experiences. No matter how rich or handsome you are there just always seems to be that one thing that gnaws away within you, eroding your confidence. Some of these are fleeting concerns while others arise out of de...

1. Gray hair

My wife has been getting random gray hairs for a bit now, more and more. It's somewhat more noticeable in bright sunlight. She's only mid-forties, and it seems to get her down a little bit. I've told her that it doesn't bother me at all, bu...

2. Being silly

Being silly and fun. This is one of the most attractive things for a truly meaningful relationship. Ever hear of marrying your best friend? What's better than being silly and fun? u/JWRamzic. My ex used to say I got the zoomies before bed. And...

3. Don't be afraid to be weird

This isn't really gender specific but I've not seen it mentioned here, and I think it's probably women that get a harder time for it overall... but general weirdness. Interests, obsessions, passions. We may not know or even care about it as much...

4. Laugh out loud

The one I don’t get is hiding/ masking their real laugh. There’s nothing more attractive than making a gorgeous woman absolutely lose her s***. The holding the sides, the little snort it’s just too too cute. It sucks that some people have made ...

5. Not dressing up all the time

Comfy clothes. Sweats, baggy shirt, or one of those spaghetti strap tank tops, no makeup, messy hair. I love that so much. Don’t get me wrong, when a woman puts in the effort to look good, it’s always appreciated and I love the confidence of a woman who knows...

6. Turning old doesn't change anything

0I wish she could understand that after a pregnancy and all the changes that come with it, after 20 years of a life that hasn’t been easy, after those few extra pounds we both put on…I still see that 19-year-old vixen that caught me checking her out while she ...

7. Perfect imperfections

I had an ex who thought her breasts were too small, she didn't like her freckles and she felt she wasn't presentable without makeup, meanwhile, I thought her breasts were perfect, I thought her freckles were and I always felt she looked better witho...

8. Having thick eyebrows

Big ol' bushy natty eyebrows. Didn't see this in the responses yet, so figured I'd shout it out. I'm not a fan of heavily manicured brows and the pencil-thin brows or eyebrows that have to be drawn on are a pretty big turn-off. So much so t...

9.  Having a big nose

Big and interesting noses. Especially aquiline noses. Gorgeous! u/Bribase. A friend of mine had a classic Roman nose. It really suited her and she was very beautiful. But when she was a teenager, a boy she liked made fun of her for it and stuck with her fo...

10. Wearing their hair loose

Kind of specific to black women, but when they wear their hair loose. I work with this woman who usually has her hair in long micro braids or has it braided up and whenever I see her with her hair loose with no braids I always think she looks so beautiful. The...