Nobody questioned how the HOA was formed and they blindly listened to it

Living in a neighborhood with a Homeowners' Association (HOA) can have its pros and cons. But what do you do when a dissolved HOA still acts like it has authority over the neighborhood? Matthew Stelter, who goes by u/matt76allen, has been living in a certain neighborhood in Michigan for more than 8 years, and has never questioned anything. However, when the HOA president did not approve Matt's pet project, he began digging around and unintentionally found some juicy information about the HOA. The post was shared on May 27, 2026, and received 4,700 upvotes and 287 comments.
We lived under an HOA for years. I recently discovered it had been dissolved since 2012.
by u/matt76allen in fuckHOA
Stelter explained that his neighborhood had no pool, no clubhouse, no gates, and no HOA dues. It simply existed to enforce neighborhood rules and protect property values. Nobody questioned how the HOA was formed, but everyone accepted the landowner's son as the association's president. In the fall of 2024, Stelter and his wife decided to expand a space next to their garage. They went through routine procedures to get it approved.
The night before the cement trucks were to arrive, Stelter received a text from the president saying it was not approved. When he asked if they were breaking any rules, he received a curt reply, "It’s not approved, Matt. Bottom line." This rubbed Stelter the wrong way, but since he did not want to start any drama, he began researching. He thought he had misunderstood a rule, but found something entirely different.

Stelter explained that he found their HOA registered in a Michigan business registry, but their status was "Dissolved - Operation of Law." It had not been active since 2012, but they were still "approving projects, enforcing rules, denying requests, and acting as if everything was fully active." He thought it was a mistake and looked into it some more, but everything pointed to the same result. He felt that the people living in the neighborhood had to know, so he wrote a five-page letter and included all the evidence he had found. He did something extra petty and bought a domain with the HOA's name and built a website for it. He added the letter to the website, an FAQ section, and a password-protected discussion page.

A few days later, the president joined the discussion page, but instead of doing damage control, he made it worse. He admitted to letting the HOA expire to save money. Ever since the president's confession, life has gone back to normal. There was no drama, no lawsuits, and no talk about HOA violations. The cement parking area that was initially unapproved is being used all the time now.
A YouGov survey conducted in 2023 found that people who live in an HOA neighborhood (58%) wished they were not. 72% think the rules and regulations set by their HOA were restrictive, while 8% think the opposite. However, the majority of respondents believed that the main duty of an HOA was to regulate noise levels (64%) rather than parking (46%), landscaping (27%), and home renovations (20%).


The post brought in a flurry of responses from netizens who gave Matt advice, some who congratulated him, and others who shared what they think about HOAs. u/Wareve commented, "Just goes to show, HOAs should be banned nationally." u/TigerUSF added, "That's awesome, just be careful. Just because the corporation is dissolved doesn't mean the covenants aren't still enforceable."
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