The bride admitted she finally understood why they say ‘It’s a brotherhood.’
On her wedding day, one bride faced the reality every girl dreads — her father not being there to walk her down the aisle. Kristin Schnacky posted a video to her Instagram account @kristinscnacky, explaining that her dad was taken from their family on September 11th. But as she stepped out the doors in her wedding gown, she found two FDNY firetrucks from Rescue One, her father’s firehouse, waiting outside. Lined up beside them were new and retired firefighters who had come to escort her to the ceremony. "I couldn’t hold it in… thank you for honoring my dad," she wrote in her video, which gained 7 million views and over 500,000 likes since being posted on August 31.
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The video shows her greeting them in her gown, overcome with emotion. At one point, Kristin added, "I finally understand why they say ‘It’s a brotherhood.’ I know my dad was smiling down knowing I was taken care of." Her family stood nearby, visibly moved as the firefighters honored her father’s memory. She later wrote, "Thank you for never forgetting FDNY." For Kristin, it was the moment she felt her father’s presence most.
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In another post, she shared what the moment meant to her. "Yesterday I truly understood what it means when firefighters say ‘it’s a brotherhood.’ Firefighters (new & retired) from my dad’s firehouse, Rescue One, showed up to my hotel and escorted me all the way to our venue, where Noah was waiting at the altar. They stopped their life to be a part of my special day to honor my dad. Walking out of the hotel to see all the firefighters with the 2 trucks instantly made me bawl my eyes out, it truly was a symbol of my dad walking me down the aisle and I know it’s exactly how he would have wanted it, this one is for you Dad," she wrote in the caption.
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The presence of the FDNY "brotherhood" on her wedding day served as a tangible embodiment of enduring support. A study titled "The Surviving Sisters Club" examined social support and posttraumatic growth (PTG) among widows who lost their firefighter husbands on September 11, 2001. It found that support from others was one of the strongest factors in helping them cope. That support gave them a way to rebuild meaning, regain a sense of self, and find strength after such a devastating loss.
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Viewers who watched the video shared how deeply the firefighters’ gesture resonated with them. @brynn_whitfield commented, "I am so sorry your dad was not there to walk you down the aisle. Thank you and your family for your incredible sacrifice, and to every NYFD fighter, retired and current. Most beautiful bride of New York City." @ashlynamberg added, "I just bawled my eyes out. Your dad is so proud of you and all you have accomplished and the beautiful woman you have become. This hits me hard being a parent."
@sara_h2427 wrote, "The most incredible brotherhood and the presence of your dad was felt so strongly. He escorted you to your venue surrounded by these amazing and caring heroes. So incredibly honored and appreciative to share these moments." @seriously_renee commented, "My father was also FDNY and passed from 9/11 related cancers. The way the FDNY took over the streets for his funeral showed me what he meant when he would call them brother. This is truly so beautiful and I know he was standing there in uniform, so proud of the woman you have grown into."
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