It was a clear display of the fact that the family was happy to add him to the chaos.

Navigating relationships is a journey on its own, and having parents’ support and guidance can be a solid plus. A woman named Sarah Archer (@saaaarrrraaaaahhh) revealed on December 26 how her parents are keeping up with her sister’s updated relationship status and showing their acceptance and support. When the woman introduced her new boyfriend, Connor, to her family during the holidays, the dad ensured he felt welcomed by getting him his own stocking. However, the way he chose to decorate the stocking is what no one saw coming, and it's priceless comedy at its finest.

Archer mentioned that the family was meeting her sister’s boyfriend during the holidays. There’s no better way to make one feel at home than to include them in the family traditions and celebrations. So the dad decided to hang up a stocking for Connor, along with the rest of the family members. “Your sister brings her boyfriend home for Christmas for the first time, and so your dad whips out this move,” she wrote in the text overlay. The video captured a series of stockings lined up with Connor’s at the end. It was a black and white stocking with red lining added to make it festive. Except, it was decor we never saw coming.
Written by the dad on the stocking were names in bold, one after the other. They read, “Tim, Joe, Mike, Willy, Hunter.” The man hysterically lined up the names and struck them out, indicating them to be all of the woman’s previous boyfriends, now no longer in the picture. After all of these names, the last was Connor’s name, freshly added, as if it were the perfect welcome. It was a clear display of the fact that the family was happy to add him to the chaos, but also a subtle reminder that he could be struck out just as easily. In her caption, Archer noted that the names were not real and that Connor was aware.
So, no surprises here, but the idea really made for a good icebreaker and holiday spirit. The best part is, it showed acceptance and support from the parents and family, though with a twist of humor. Terri Orbuch, therapist and professor at Oakland University in Michigan, and also author of “Secrets to Surviving Your Children’s Love Relationships: A Guide for Parents” and “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great,” noted that parents play an important role in helping kids navigate and develop an idea of relationships, per Greater Good Magazine. As the director of the National Institute of Health’s longest-running study on couples, she mentioned that a child first notices the parents’ relationship and then gets ideas about romance, partnership, and even family. She explained that parents need to provide a free and expressive platform for their children to learn about relationships. “Good relationships for your children start with you. As parents, you have the power to affect your children’s love relationships and, at the same time, pave the road to a better lifelong relationship with your children. And this dad was doing just that with a unique touch.


For the internet, too, it was a perfect chuckle. @hey_itskj said, “If he can’t handle your family’s humor, you’ll be adding another name on there next year.” @dominick727 added, “Should have added another ‘Connor’ in there just for fun.” @mermaid_girl16 remarked, “It’d be better if they left one name not crossed out and put a question mark.”
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